Inter402 is Jason

[juldea]

Inter402 (11:36:16 PM): you're trying to pin the blame on something
Inter402 (11:36:30 PM): and you're very skeptical of getting outside help besides your friends or yourself
Inter402 (11:36:36 PM): I think that's a mistake
Inter402 (11:36:42 PM): on both counts
Inter402 (11:36:57 PM): first because you're trying to find one single problem to nail down, and it's probably a lot of things
Inter402 (11:37:17 PM): secondly, because none of the people you are asking for advice are people who should be giving you the kind of advice you really need

Discuss. No, really. Someone write a comment, please. One that relates to this discussion.

Comments

Re: Corch here

[zenandtheart.livejournal.com]

Jewls, you missed the whole point of my post. I cant tell you what to do. Rachel cant. Goldbug Cant, And Jason cant. No one can, YOU are the only person in your life who can decide what is best for you. We have tried to be supportive, give advice where it was asked for and you have acted on none of it. Which is why Im telling you to pull your finger out. By the sounds of things you do alot of complaining, and yet you take no action to make things different. You can sit there and say you have no choice in the matter but you ALWAYS have a choice, the question is whether you can bear the consaquences of that choice. Dropping out of school might seem like its not an option but in choosing to do nothing you choose to accept being stressed and broke and if you cant deal with that thne you have to choose to accept somethign else, whether it be a extra semester in school later or selling your car to ease the finances...The point is you ALWAYS have a choice, YOU have the power to make your life better, no one else does. If you are waiting for someone to come along and just make everythign better you'll be waiting the rest of your life.

I guess all of that sounds a bit harsh. I do still care about you alot julia but you post more stuff on your journal than anyone else ive seen, you tell us about many aspects of your life, you invite the criticism yourself. We're not doing it to make you unhappy, we're trying to help, and since being soft and supportive didnt seem to work, i figure its time for some tough love :)

C.

Amanda here

[zenandtheart.livejournal.com]

I agree.

Re: Corch here

[juldea.livejournal.com]

I don't post here to be criticized.

Re: Corch here

[zenandtheart.livejournal.com]

Im sure thats not what you WANT, but you cant expect to post the thing you do, provide so much detail about your life, and not have people make judgements on you actions, expecially if you are constanly asking them for advice. You are the on who choose to air the things you do in a somewhat public forum, if you didnt want feed back you wouldnt. But if you expect people to sugar coat their words to you rather than be honest, theyre never going to tell you the things you need to hear, only what you want to hear.

C.