It depends on who you are. For some, maybe there is no optimal configuration, or happiness in this world to be found. Generally, i'll venture that as it is a predominant doctrine, you'll avoid hurting and confusing people by sticking to the rules of monogamy - then again, i'm not confident that you still won't end up hurt and confused. Also, as one only does have so much time and love to go around, monogamy is a bit easier. All in all, lately i've been wary of any kind of human connection - so risk-laden. Poetry smacks of a similar danger. Is romance really worth the risk of accidentally hurting someone you care for? Put differently: is it really better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?
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on 1 Oct 2001 01:21 (UTC)i'm sorry if i didn't answer the question well..
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on 1 Oct 2001 05:12 (UTC)