Also, in a lot of cases, guys saying that generally are saying "While I would like to have sex with you, I don't think the pleasure in that would outweigh the pain of the resulting fistfight."
Such a statement still lacks any concern as for the consent or enthusiasm of the you in the sentence. If your main reason for not having sex with me would be that my spouse will kick the shit out of you, either you're assuming that I'd like to have sex with you (hella icky), or assuming that my lack of interest is less worth mentioning than my spouse's displeasure (hella icky). Contextually this can still be funny, among the right people, I'm sure; juldea is presumably getting it in contexts she doesn't find funny.
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on 16 Feb 2010 18:49 (UTC)Such a statement still lacks any concern as for the consent or enthusiasm of the you in the sentence. If your main reason for not having sex with me would be that my spouse will kick the shit out of you, either you're assuming that I'd like to have sex with you (hella icky), or assuming that my lack of interest is less worth mentioning than my spouse's displeasure (hella icky). Contextually this can still be funny, among the right people, I'm sure;